After their December 2024 proposal, Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco have taken some time when it comes to planning their big day.
In July 2025, Blanco shared that he and Gomez were “both working on so many things” that they “haven’t even had time to get into” wedding planning.
“But we’re so excited,” he shared on Jake Shane’s “Therapuss” podcast. “I think this summer, we’re going to sit down and be like, ‘OK, what are we doing, hun?’”
A little over a month after Blanco gave a wedding update, Gomez went to Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, to celebrate her bachelorette with her closest girlfriends.
Selena Gomez is head over heels for fiancé Benny Blanco — and she isn’t afraid to show it. Gomez, 33, took to Instagram on Sunday, August 10, to share a sweet snap of herself kissing Blanco’s cheek. The photo was one of several featured in a carousel that captured a wedding the pair attended one […]
“It was your typical, traditional bachelorette and what Selena wanted,” a source told Us Weekly in August 2025. “She was radiating all weekend and was so happy to have downtime with her girlfriends. Selena is a simple girl, and the little things go a long way with her. She truly exudes happiness when she talks about Benny. She is very excited to start this next chapter with him.”
Meanwhile, Blanco had a bachelor party in Las Vegas, where he spent time with some of his guy friends, including rapper Lil Dicky.
Keep scrolling to see everything we know about Gomez and Blanco’s special day:
It’s Going to Be ‘Chill’
While Blanco shared in July 2025 that the twosome had been too busy with their respective careers to start wedding planning, he did share that their ceremony would be worth the wait.
“It will be chill,” he gushed on the “Therapuss” podcast. “It will be amazing.”
The Wedding Planning Process Has Been ‘Wonderful’
In September 2025, Gomez shared that planning her wedding has been “wonderful.”
“I’m very lucky,” she shared on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon. “It’s going well. I’m so excited.”
Her Preferred Wedding Dessert
Gomez shared that she does not want to have “a big cake” at her wedding.
“I think I’d want a mini one for just us that we can freeze,” she said via her beauty brand, Rare Beauty’s TikTok in July 2025. “My preferred dessert would be biscuits and gravy. My Nana’s biscuits and gravy — that sounds like dessert to me.”
They Likely Won’t Have a Traditional First Dance
In April 2025, Gomez shared that she “doesn’t think” that she and Blanco are going to have a traditional first dance.
“She’s shy,” Blanco said on the “Table Manners with Jessie and Lennie Ware” podcast, before Gomez shared that she hopes she can do a dance with her maternal grandfather. “I’m looking to have a special dance with my papa. He never got a chance to walk my mom [Mandy Teefey] down the aisle because, good for my mom, she decided to go to Vegas and was like, ‘Whoooo’ and she’s still been with him [Brian Teefey] ever since she was 26. So it’s very cute that they did that. But I wanted to give my grandfather the opportunity to have that.”
Selena Gomez was spotted celebrating her rumored bachelorette party over the weekend. Gomez, who’s engaged to music producer Benny Blanco, was photographed having fun with friends on a luxury yacht off the coast of Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, on Saturday, August 23. Photos published in People on Monday, August 25, show Gomez, 33, laughing, dancing […]
Gomez did note that while they’re not doing a traditional dance, she will still participate in Blanco’s Jewish heritage by doing the Hora. (The Hora is traditionally done with the bride and groom being lifted in the air in chairs by their wedding guests.)
“I am very nervous about that,” Gomez said. “I have to be honest, it looks so cute and adorable. But I was like, ‘What, I have to depend on something like this?’ I just gotta have a padding around.”
Martin Short Will Be the Ring Bearer
Gomez revealed that her Only Murders in the Building costar and close friend Martin Short would play a big role at her wedding.
“Marty’s the ring bearer,” she said on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon.
Selena Gomez and her fiancé, producer Benny Blanco, officially announced their relationship via Instagram in December 2023. “He is my absolute everything in my heart,” the “Wolves” singer wrote in an Instagram comment at the time. “He has been the best thing that’s ever happened to me.” Hints of the couple’s relationship were dropped on the […]
Short went on to say that he and Steve Martin are “so excited” for Gomez’s wedding.
“We love this lady and we love her fiancé, Bad Bunny,” Short joked before Gomez corrected him, “Benny Blanco.”
Several Stars Will Be in Attendance
Aside from Short and Martin, some other stars have confirmed that they will attend Gomez and Blanco’s nuptials including Paris Hilton, Ed Sheeran, David Henrie, Taylor Swift and Ashley Park.
When Will They Say ‘I Do’?
A source exclusively told Us that Gomez and Blanco will tie the knot in Santa Barbara, California in September 2025.
“Guests still do not know exact locations for the rehearsal or the wedding,” the insider explained, noting that shuttle buses will pick up the guests at their hotels and take them to the events.
